M
2 min readMar 8, 2024

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You know what, although I think the criteria you believe women (rich and good-looking women in your case) want men to satisfy to be inside their dating pool are not real till a good extent (money, looks and heights are not the essential top three criteria), I too believe rich, tall and good-looking men in our society have much bigger dating pools than rich and good-looking women (I am going along with these shallow features you highlight to establish the point only, I absolutely don’t condone the idea of "high profile" men or women, those are very childish perspectives). But when the men who try to intimidate women saying they will die single with cats etc. do so, they are not saying that as well-wishing friends or anything, they are saying it out of spite, because the women’s selectiveness is restricting their options for all kinds of things they can get from women with lower bars. The little calculation you showed doesn’t work for another reason too. Which men got lots of options? The rich, tall and handsome men. Not the average men. And those men don’t usually say such non-diplomatic shits randomly, because they got too much to lose in terms of money, fame and also, yeah, women’s attention. They would only blurt out things like this off guard, when they are rejected by women or when they notice an "uncomfortable" trend among women demanding more qualities from the guys in general. So, it’s almost always the men who are entitled but scorned try to threaten women with singlehood and loneliness.

It’s like the men who say they are MGTOW (men going their own way) but never go on that way but instead choose to obsess over women, talking shits about us. Like dude wtf? Go on your own way all you want, why are you still talking about how women have high expectations, how women are gold-diggers, cheaters, how you will rather toss a coin than listen to a woman, how when your girlfriend (girlfriend for mgtow, huh) asked you to see things from her perspective, you replied that you don’t want to stand inside a kitchen and look through the narrow window, how an unmarried man is safe and sound and happy with his intact wallet, etc. etc. etc.? Just freaking move on with your life without women and don’t obsess over us. Why can’t you do that simple thing?

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Not the initial for Man/Male. After all, this letter is not only reserved for that. It's the initial of my name, and I am a woman.

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