You got it wrong. Never once I said children don't need parents. I said children don't need only and exactly 2 parents, one man and one woman, with a current or past sexual relationship between themselves and with a societal decree/permit of what a society thinks is a valid relationship between them. These are not the criteria for parents, and these should not be the only eligibilities/qualifications for parents. As long as the parent/parents are loving and supportive, they should get to be parents of kids.
I don't understand why you gave the example of you and your kids. Nowhere am I saying that the kids who are happy and well-supported should be snatched away from their biological parents. You are again twisting out some meaningless things from there.
What I mean by all those "ideological opinions" is that parents should not be stopped from divorcing an abusive spouse playing the kid as an excuse, saying that the kid will suffer. Parents, married or divorced, can and ideally should keep the problems between themselves aside, and create a manipulation-free and loving environment for the kid. If they can't do that, but constantly create problem in the house, terrifying them, affecting their mental health, and still don't agree to get divorced, they should be cut out from the lives of the other spouse(s) and the kids. And society should not play the "if you divorce then your kids will suffer" card and then be those very people who discriminate agisnt/ bully the kids.
Secondly, single parents, lgbtqia+ people should have the rights to adopt kids as long as they are being loving and supportive parents to the kids. This should be the case at every place on earth.
And thirdly, people should have access well-accepted and well-supported options of having biological kids without marrying or without even being in a relationship or without having intercourse. People should be able to co-parent kids as long as they are parenting well. People from everywhere should be able to do that without societal stigma/discrimination/threat.