What you and many guys like you fail to recognize is that everything is not a game. Dismissing rape victim even before knowing their side, dismissing harassment and showing it as boys are just having a little innocent fun is not cool at all. They are opposite of cool, they really tell people to be aware of you, and get away from you as you prove yourself to be an enebaler of such criminals. Again, I'll say everything is not game. A guy friend of mine knew nothing about me but still called me a princess, living off my parents' money (ironically, my parents got no money), he said he somehow knows I'd never marry a househusband (nowadays this is a trendy comeback of these guys, and while there are many women who really won't like one, I'd love to get one, but that's another story), I called him an idiot (well not loudly of course, I don't want to make enemies), but I didn't start avoiding him, sure I talked less and less to such an ignorantly annoying guy from thereafter. But another guy friend once said that only the West got such a high divorce rate, women there are reckless and characterless, in our society (I belong to one of the Asian cultures), we don't need divorces, we are all very happy because of our traditional culture and beliefs, and here women don't need divorce, I blocked that guy from thereafter, that guy is dangerous, he is highly talented, will make a place for himself in the society, but he will preach such beliefs there, he will have the power and support to make the life of other people so bad, he knows freaking nothing about our society, how women here are trapped, how we would have more than 90% divorce rate if women just had the financial freedom and social security. So, beliefs like that are no games, that is outright dangerous and dismissing of women's experiences and lives.