Well at least thanks for the humane answer. So many times so many boys and men have said me that I'm lying, even if they don't know me personally. When I point out something sexist against women, they do whataboutery, when I say something personal, they say I'm lying. But yeah, judging men by their appearance, money etc are sexist too. But when you demand women to always take care of men, you ask for an insane amount of entitlement. Women first need to take care of themselves to take care of others, and that too should be out of free will.