Umm... many women want househusbands? But also househusbands who actually tend to the household, kids and the women?

And it's true many women don't want that and sure, a huge percentage of them are abhorred by the idea because of their internalized patriarchal mindset. But I don't understand how wanting to do both the inside and outside work equates with men's misery? Men are never expected to take care of the household chores or the kids, culturally.