This. My male manager once asked me " You are not seeking for any relationship or marriage, right?" I said, "yes! I'm not..." Then he asked another female colleague, " What about you?" It didn't occur to me just then, but later I thought. Surprisingly I never talked about these things to anyone in the team. But yeah, I don't shave to have baby-like skin, I don't use make-up and I dress for myself, with comfort as priority. So, he interpreted all these as my reluctance to have a relationship with a man. Because I was not dolled up. Wow. While he with his big tummy, bad look and older-than-his-age get-up is just fine, because he is a man.