So post divorce, some women provoke men to end their lives? Why? See I know there are some princessy kind of woman who are brought up to feel very entitled on husbands' money and even emasculate them (as if it's a thing) if they fail to satisfy their needs. But, why some women, as per you, provoke their ex-husbands to die after divorce is not clear to me. As much as I know, the gold-digging women never get a divorce, or, resist divorce vehemently in the first place.

And I do feel the need to blame and fo blame patriarchy for men's suicide. Why? Two reasons. First, because it's true. Second, I find it not only highly unfair and dark but also very much harmful to women when people misdirect male suicide rates on women or our sense of independence, our will to rioritize our lives first. The man in our household does things similar to that (blame his wife for all the failures in his life), my relatives also blame the women in the family unfairly, e.g., if they are finding it difficult to stay with an abusive or cheating husband, they blame them if they don't want to stay together with the husbands' parents (but finds it really normal when all the girls after marriage are sent off to the husbands' house and family), people around me blame women if we are trying to make a better life for our family and the kids (including the husband) instead of keeping us limited to the fathers' Or husbands' status/income (or, in the case of my family, it always is run on the women's income only, the men doing the bare minimum and destroying much more), blame women if we are trying to do something on our own to level up (if it was not because of my mother, I would have been the same as my cousin sisters, no independence, no freedom, and waiting for an arranged marriage, but my mom fought for me since my childhood, gave me the parent, the education and the possibility her parents or her teachers never gave her); it feels really shitty, believe me.
It IS the fault of patriarchy, because this particular way of thinking that men are the providers, women should be content within the men's status and level, should be adjusting, should not do something big for themselves or their kids, if men can't provide much, or, to the level their family demands, then they are not men, if wives have to work, then their husbands are not men, real men never accept divorces, real women never divorce, men should keep their wives and kids under his control etc.; all these comes from patriarchal thought process. And, I really don't understand how acknowleding this, seeing these things properly, is not helping but worsening the case? Can you explain?