Really thank you for writing this beautiful piece. I really wish more and more people would understand the maturity in divorce. It's not a failure, it's not a judgement, punishment or insult; not degradation or shame.
I wish more and more people would have the courage and good faith to consider and opt for divorce, instead of staying in unhappy marriages. I wish divorce would stop being a taboo. Then only, we would get a chance to work things out about our own lives or our children's lives, post divorce, carefully and in a mature way. Then only we would be able to deal with all the other things that come afterwards, in a way that benefits us.