Listen, a woman's body is hers only. It's entirely to her whether she decides to get an abortion or not. So, please don't compare abortion and adoption. By doing that, you are showing your eagerness to taking away a human being's agency. And no, before you say so, abortion is not murder, but the people who say so are surely indirect murderers (of the women). No murder victim resides inside the murderers body, and no mom is happy to have an abortion, it's something they have to do because they have no other way. And no, If I am raped, which is a very probable possibility btw given our rape culture, I would prefer an abortion, and not an adoption. At that starting moment of a kid's life, its entirely the birthing person's decision about what to do, and a kid born from me either will have me as their parent, or, will not see the light of the earth, and of course I believe in protection first, and that abortion is not a way of birth-control, but in case of a pregnancy to me against my will, I will prefer abortion and whoever thinks they can take away that right of mine, are treating me (and also the kid) as their plaything. (btw, back-alley abortion is never ever going away, so people can always force anyone to have an abortion, I know some of my relatives who did that, the husband raped the wife, then took her to abort, in Jubilee, I was watching a video where a young girl was in favor of banning abortion because some close relative/family friend of hers raped her, and then forced an abortion. She very naively thinks by banning abortion, these will go away, but who will point this out to her that by giving away this choice, girls will not be saved from such vile people, but instead if they are raped, or, they have a health hazard, they will be forced to give birth, against their will, the unborn will be prioritized over the born and living females, females will only be shells, incubators for the future generations/playthings. And this is already happening in so many part of the world, including very liberal USA, the irony)

And really, have you ever looked very close into what you are writing? You are saying that there's a natural hierarchy of good parents, with hetero parents at the top, single and lgbtq+ parents below them. What logic do you have saying that?