Let me make it easier to comprehend: You wrote term like mansplaining, manspreading, male gaze, toxic masculinity objectively are based in misandry. And, some of these traits are not unique to men, but they are named after men and that's unfair. So, I asked your opinion about the much more popular and universal usage of the following words which refer to concepts, traits and feelings again common to all the genders, but named after men only (or, in the case of the derogatory word bitch, after women). You said they should be gender-neutral. Well and good. Although I wonder what your response would be if I asked you this same question but not in this context. But still, as of now, well and good.
Please let me know if you are still struggling with "my reading comprehension". I'll try to explain the context further.
Interestingly, in my original question, I had at least this one term "bitching", a gendered term derogating the female gender to describe a common negative trait of all the genders. Ironically, most of the usage of this term is against women only, when men bitch just as much if not more than women. Anyway, I had that word in my collection of word, just the question I asked was not that direct. But Baby Cakes' comment is more clear and it includes this particular gendered word too. I'm keen to know your response to her last comment in this section (and not here, but against her comment):
"Is son a bad word? Oh no! But bitch is. Son of a bitch is only offensive to men because that's saying your mother is a bitch. Still does not say anything bad about men or son's.
Same with mother fucker why not father fucker? Nope it has to always demean women or mothers. Rolling my eyes!"
Lastly, what do you mean by the last sentence?