Learning about these tricks (date young women and groom them as suits the men, shame women calling them masculine, unattractive, dull, shaming and trying to mold women by comparing them with other women) many men apply on women, makes me start my introduction as a young woman with "I am an old soul and most probably you will find me being a lot like the "old ladies", and you can’t shame me into behaving otherwise, because it’s coming from inside". Dating is a horror game. I really wish humans had an alternative way of giving birth to the next generation. Like replicating themselves with some mutation.