It feels like I then only want to associate myself and get into a relationship with men who are suspected to be gay, called feminine, nice, kind, naive etc. by the society. And I am afraid of all the other men, and want to stay away from them throughout my life. I would also argue that the other kind of men should not hold any position of power and responsibility in our society. But unfortunately, most of the men in power are like that, toxic, unempathetic, cowardly, cruel, controlling and manipulative. We really got to change that about our society.