In India, women are forced to live away from their parents and siblings and live with the husband and his family after marriage, while men get to stay with their families all they want. We say we are a very family centric nation, but then we tear away all the girls from their family after marriage without a single thought and even celebrate it. What we are, is actually a heartless two-faced patriolocal culture. I personally saw how one of my school teacher, even though she was an only child of her old and single mother, had to leave her alone and go to live in her husband's house, faraway, after her marriage. I also saw one 50 above woman in my neighborhood, who was unable to leave her old and lonely mother throughout her life had to give up on marriage and a new family for future. Now, her mom died and she is now going to be the old lonely lady. This culture is not fair.
I saw many western people somewhat idealize our culture for aparently caring for the elderly parents, but it's no way fair to force the man's parents on his wife's shoulder, while she doesn't get to care for her own parents.