If you know anything about sexuality, you would know nobody can change theirs by force. So that comment makes no sense.

I am sure you already understood what I said in the original comment. If you didn't, here's a very good song by Bella Porch talking about the same thing in a symbolic way.
It goes like this:

"This ain't build a bitch,
You don't get to pick and choose"

Have a nice day and hope you become self-sufficient soon.