I was sexually harassed by one of my older male cousin at the age of 4-5, I felt super weird then, but I didn't know what it was. His sister was there too, she is a few months younger than me. I don't know if he did these criminal things on her too, or, if she remembers.
The first time I told about it to someone when I was in my early twenties. Going to police or anything would sound hilariously offending to almost everyone around me, because he doesn't need this moral policing from me, I presume, even though it's he, who did something bad. But I have heard things like why ruin his life? He might commit suicide! Okay, but what about people like me? And how are we as a society not disciplining the criminals? Aren't we passively supporting them to be demons? Aren't we making our boys and men demons?