I really hope the same thing holds true for men too, that the warmer a man feels about men, the warmer he feels about women. That solves two very important issue for me.
Firstly, I want more men to feel and be independent and self-dependent, happy with themselves at first, and not be like he absolutely needs a woman's contribution, self-molding and sacrifice to be and feel fulfilled (and of course, this is not the way of being fulfilled, if you require others to sacrifice or change for you).
Secondly, although my conscience is clear when I demand women's rights, freedom and choice, we always encounter tons of comments from men online and in real life saying it's the women going their own way that is harming men. Although there's absolutely no justification in that which can say women should prioritize men over themselves, still sometimes I think is it really true that men, in general, are really incapable of taking care of themselves and women are the stronger ones, hence women really sometimes should go out of their way to help the men. I know this is not true. But if the actual case happens to be like this that it's some men who are just feigning incapability and helplessness to control women, and those men don't even have a positive image of men or much self-love to begin with, it'll ease the confusion.