I heard from my mom when she was pregnant with me, her first and only pregnancy, and was in labor, and was struggling to push, doctors were harshly rebuking her for not being strong enough, for not taking care of herself during the pregnancy. At that point of time. She came from a poor family, neither her parents, nor her husband took/ had the knowledge to take much care of her, and she was just 23, was nauseous and suffered from digestion problems and loss of apetite throughout her pregnancy. Did the doctors even consider the chance? And did they cut some slack for the young girl in labor and in potential risk? Well, no, of course!

And the pain she suffered during the childbirth made her decide not to give birth again, in her life.