Hi Eva.. so I was talking about the whole concept of sharing your finance and financial decisions with your man. I really like the idea and the feeling of that, that is what I would want to do in an ideal world where we are not brought up in a sexist and patriarchal society. But to do that in the real life is a very risky romance to me. It's like I want to, but I should not want for my own safety and security, and for the security of my own parents, siblings and kids and other people dependent on me. I am seeing my mom, my aunts suffering because their husbands are too torturing or too controlling about their financial decisions and about the way they manage their own hard-earned money. And seeing that, I am of the mentality that if I am to be with a man, they should respect my financial privacy and won't be eager to know more than I share. I surely support a joint account for current and near future expenses, and I am even willing to financially support the basic livelihood of my partner and our kids, to the extent I can; but that decision will entirely be my own. I don't want him or his family to know about my money, my expenses etc. It never turns out to be good given our society.