A man who provides for you can also demand anything from you. A man who protects you from outsiders can not protect you from himself. You are depending on his money, but do you know how he is earning those money? If he is doing something wrong for the money and you're thinking that it's his responsibility to provide for you, aren't you also a sinner of his sin? If you are depending on him for providing and protecting you, while crippling yourself, and he turns out to be a bad man, and your kids are suffering, couldn't you do better if you were independent from him? And why do you equate abortion with murder? In murder, the murderer is not killing a person who exist inside their own body, the murderer is not killing because if they don't, then they will be killed. And more importantly, the murderer is killing an actual person, while by banning abortion, you are killing an actual breathing living human being just for the possibility of a futual human being. And what do you think? By banning abortion, it'll happen nowhere? Well foeticide and infanticide is very common in society, families force women to abort if they decide to not take responsibility of the child, and you being dependent on the husband and his family increase the chance of it happening to you even more. Anyway abortion happened, is happening and will always happen, it's just that by banning it, you are just snatching women's right from deciding about her own body and life. People will go on with deciding for her.