1) no, many women are looking for people who finds their inner qualities attractive, not shallow people stuck on beauty and sex. so, yes, it would be great if men clear their intention from beforehand instead of insulting/gaslighting the woman later after they get them into relationships. That's not cool.

2) FYI, I am not looking for a rich man. If I ever be convinced enough to try out dating, and relationship, I'd look for a genuine man with no belief in gender roles and man who is not a thoughtless lamb following a thoughtless herd of humans. And, if I want a rich man, and want to exchange my body for it, I would say so. Here I'm blaming patriarchy, because patriarchy builds up this transactional shit, making people believe that a workable and "normal" way of life should be women offering their bodies and minds and men offering money and status in a relationship. And, then people like you and the writer would pull out endless nonsense theories like genetics and evolutionary psychology to justify that indoctrination.